Get A Date: Flirting Successfuly On Line

Do you know how to succeed at flirting? Many of the same tactics work for on line flirting that work for hometown flirting because all dating begins with successful flirting. Here's how to pull it off.

Flirting is an art form that requires showing confidence without being overbearing but, if you go too far, she may label you as a slimy character. If you don’t go far enough, she may label you as wimpy. So how do you achieve that point half way between wanted and rejected and do it online without using eye contact or body language?

All you have is a computer, internet connection, and maybe a membership in a social networking site, right? So, how can this be done?

Try these 6 winning tips and you will have success.

1. Use humor! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make her want to talk to you again. Flirting should only be playful, not life and death surgery so use your sense of humor. No off-color jokes or innuendo's please!

2. You are all man! Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life and feel good about themselves. You need to exude your "feel good about myself" factor. An optimistic and self assured male attracts females like pollen attracts bees.

3. Praise her and do it often and do it sincerely. Nothing smooths the way like accentuating her strengths. But, don't overdo this. Find something about her that she will recognize is a real compliment because she knows it fits her. Do this and she will want to spend more time with you, and, if she pays you a compliment accept it with a sincere “thank you”. Do not try to be Mr. Humble! That's too wimpy!

4. Listen, listen, and listen some more. Pay close attention to what she says and ask interesting questions. She will reveal much of herself in what she says so get her to open up and talk about herself by asking lots of questions. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. The "Listen Factor" works wonders!

5. Get your head in the right place! Flirting does not include being explicit or being a jerk if the lady isn’t responding to your suggestive overtures. If she isn’t interested in getting that cozy, take the hint. Change the subject or move on to the next prospect if you must but, If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably reconsider your dating goals. The salesperson's rule is : Quit when you get seven No's. They are not going to buy! What are you selling and how are you selling it? Got it?

6. Always send an email or text message after each exchange with your prospective date. This ranks right up there with sending a "Thank You" note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting. It shows you are a sensitive guy. You are a sensitive guy, right?

Finally, and this is critical to your success, don't be a phony when using these tips to your advantage. Most women have emotional radar that will zero in on you and dump you like yesterday's newspaper! Be honestly sincere when you use these tips. You'll have the edge in your on line dating and maybe you'll find your real soul mate. If not, you will surely have lots of fun trying!

While flirting is the first step to a successful relationship, there are many more steps you need to learn. Author Jim DeSantis offer a free ebook about on line dating, no email required. Grab On Line Dating Bliss in 5 Easy Steps - here! or visit http://jim-desantis.blogspot.com/2008/05/online-dating-bliss-in-five-simple.html